With the carving tool or the nail carve your lover’s first name into the red candle, then anoint the candle with the Vanilla oil. Put the candle in the center of your altar and light it. Write your name on the piece of paper. Next, anoint the other candles with the oil and also place them on your altar. Put the white candles on each side of the red candle, and the golden candles next to the white candles. Put the piece of paper with your name on it behind the red candle and put the lodestone on top of it. Place the Aventine between the white and the golden candle on the left, and the malachite between the white and the golden candle on the right.
Light all the candles, beginning with the red one. Take the red candle into your right hand and hold it up. Open your mind and spirit for the spell. While holding up the candle, close your eyes and communicate your wishes to the universe. Build up as much energy as possible. Focus on your wish for your lost lover to return and to bring back your ex. Try to build up as much energy as you can. This step is very important, do not rush this step and take your time.
Once you are done chant seven times. So transfer my will, my spell has been heard, as I will, so mote it be. Let the candles burn out completely.